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Battered and bruised after hookup… tips and tricks needed
Battered and bruised after hookup… tips and tricks needed
need advice
Battered and bruised after hookup… tips and tricks needed

So I hooked up with this guy the other day and he LOVED the ladies (like more so than I’ve ever experienced before and that’s saying something amiright) and it’s not like he used teeth or anything but man oh man are my boobs like completely bruised ALL OVER like entire square footage is purple and there seems to be extra bruising where my underwire bra line is (probably from wearing the bra to work the next day ofc) but it’s been at least 48 hours and I still look like I got a boob job from Texas chainsaw massacre. Has anyone else experienced this before? Hoping to find some info and advice 😭


$551 in my Freya cart and I’m scared nothing will fit (again!)
$551 in my Freya cart and I’m scared nothing will fit (again!)
RANT - advice welcome
$551 in my Freya cart and I’m scared nothing will fit (again!)

All of last year, I knew I was wearing the wrong size. Every bra had spillage and none were supportive. But my current bras weren’t too old and I didn’t want to blow hundreds on bras when I wasn’t absolutely pouring out of them just yet.

So I saved, resized myself over and over again on ABTF, and finally selected a wardrobe of new bras to change out my 32H’s for 30J’s in March. Online, of course, because not a single store within 5 hours of me stocks my size.

Aaaaaand none fit. All of the bands fit looser than my 34”s, so every bra was useless. To add salt to the wound, I had only bought on sale, so not a single bra was returnable.

April came, and I got very sick. I lost 35 pounds rapidly. I thought I’d gain it back, but my body is continuing to rebel, so waiting for a return to form looks bleak. It’s been months and almost nothing in my closet fits. My boobs have never been so unsupported, sitting at an ABTF-estimated 28K in bras with bands that fit like 34”. My swimsuits nearly swam off of me at a recent pool party! Enough is enough; I need clothing that fits my body.

So here I am again, with $551 worth of bras and swimsuits in my cart with Freya. I have painstakingly compared fit, style, price, and size for each. I think I might cry if these don’t fit.

And hey, anyone got a Freya discount code? Your girl’s hurting.