This. You’ve put into words the absolute core of it. The ultimate male fear under patriarchy is a woman who is completely untouchable—historically, physically, and visually.
A gaze that turns men to stone completely reverses the power dynamic. It destroys the 'male gaze' entirely; looking at her is no longer a tool of objectification or intimidation, but a fatal mistake. Hollywood and patriarchal history had to turn her into a mindless villain because a woman who permanently mutates her trauma into an impenetrable, lethal boundary is terrifying to a system built on accessing and consuming women's bodies. She didn't just survive; she became unassailable.