I have been putting off having a proper conversation with my partner about wanting any kind of lower surgery because I’m really worried about how she may react. We have spoken about it hypothetically in the past (e.g. discussing other people having phallo or I’ve told her about lower surgery options but not in relation to myself) and she is otherwise incredibly supportive of me so I’m not sure why I have such a mental block about actually talking to her about this. She has asked me a few times about it but I become quite shut down and anxious about rejection or the fear it might change our relationship. I was pretty adamant when we first started dating that lower surgery wasn’t something I wanted but gradually over time I have come to realise that I would like to seriously consider phallo. Any advice on ways to have these conversations would be greatly received. Thank you!
Any surgeon recommendations for phalloplasty alt preferably but anyone who knows someone? I can’t find much on here or the internet even tried grs and the one I found here is being outsourced to the USA apparently and my job won’t cover that. 😕
is it hopeless to even try to get phallo