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What is the best way to talk to partner about wanting phallo?
What is the best way to talk to partner about wanting phallo?
Advice

I have been putting off having a proper conversation with my partner about wanting any kind of lower surgery because I’m really worried about how she may react. We have spoken about it hypothetically in the past (e.g. discussing other people having phallo or I’ve told her about lower surgery options but not in relation to myself) and she is otherwise incredibly supportive of me so I’m not sure why I have such a mental block about actually talking to her about this. She has asked me a few times about it but I become quite shut down and anxious about rejection or the fear it might change our relationship. I was pretty adamant when we first started dating that lower surgery wasn’t something I wanted but gradually over time I have come to realise that I would like to seriously consider phallo. Any advice on ways to have these conversations would be greatly received. Thank you!


UK - NVH stopping transmasc surgery as of 1 Dec 2026
UK - NVH stopping transmasc surgery as of 1 Dec 2026
r/phallo - UK - NVH stopping transmasc surgery as of 1 Dec 2026