I genuinely think that I've never been one of the stock sizes that everyone seems to do. And while tailoring is the answer, that's also an expensive route. You have to buy better quality clothing so that it can be adjusted or just settle for something that doesn't work. I'm just venting
I've noticed that for women, wearing eyelash makeup greatly increases attractiveness. What would be a male equivalent? Thick eyebrows?
I was wondering if there's any other simple things that increases attractiveness?
Edit 6/14/2026
As of today, I have uploaded the comments to AI to help summarize the replies. Firstly,
1. Top 5 Most Common Suggestions
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Haircut and facial grooming - regular haircut, trim beard, embrace being bald
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Posture - stand straight, shoulders back
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Hygiene / grooming - shower, deodorant, skincare, dental
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Clothes that fit well - proper fit, sleeve length, pants length, avoid sloppy clothes
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Fitness - get lean, lift weights, healthy body
2. Biggest Disagreements
Cologne / fragrance - women love cologne, too much smells terrible
Smiling - n/a
Hair length - long vs short hair, bald
3. Biggest Takeaway
AI specifically says, " The community's model wasn't: 'Become exceptionally handsome.' It was: 'Demonstrate that you consistently take care of yourself.'" - I personally like that and find it almost inspiring.
I personally skimmed through all 618 comments and read into some of them. I believe my original question was too vague to understand.
So, to make it clearer, I guess context will help. I noticed one day a woman who doesn't wear makeup was wearing mascara, and I noticed that made her face overall more attractive. It seemed so simple to me that it's easy to overlook it. So I wondered if there was anything else I was overlooking, so I came here to ask.
Did I find what I was looking for?
I don't know. Perhaps I overlooked the top 5 most common suggestions. Or perhaps it's a combination of the top 5, and mascara is simply the cherry on top. Maybe I was looking for something secret that nobody knows about that could greatly increase attractiveness.
But in the category I am most familiar with, I have found there is no magic potion to help besides the boring, mundane things. So maybe in this specific male fashion category, there is no magic potion as well.
But I thank you all for responding. Whether to help me or to argue with someone else, or something in between!
My grandpa bought it for me a while ago. It's a Zara Essentials shirt. The tag wore off, so I don't know what size it is, but I can provide measurements. How can I get more shirts of a similar quality and measurements?