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r/AskWomen Rules
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Minimum Participation Requirements
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Minimum Participation Requirements
Participants here must:
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Participate in good faith.
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Trolls, spammers, scammers, and those unable or unwilling to follow sub rules will be banned.
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Verify your account through Reddit's email verification system.
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Meet a minimum karma requirement.
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While the specific karma requirement isn't disclosed to deter spammers and trolls, it is not difficult to achieve through good faith participation on Reddit.
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Basic Question Posting Requirements.
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Basic Question Posting Requirements.
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Read Rules
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Check Search Bar/FAQ
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Check for Themed Day Rules
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Limit of 1 post/day
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Place your response as a comment, not in the question/description
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Use description field only to provide context or definitions
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No surveys/market/academic research, or homework help
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No posts indistinguishable from promotional material
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No posts indistinguishable from fap fodder
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No gifts or shopping posts about specific brands/products/stores.
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Engage in Good Faith
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Engage in Good Faith
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All participants here should be acting as individuals and not as representatives of any official entity. Media, Business, Corporate, or other accounts that do not belong to human individuals are not permitted to participate on this sub.
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AI accounts and bot accounts are not permitted
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Use of AI in comments or posts may lead to a ban
Unauthorized posting indistinguishable from these types of content will result in a permanent ban. If you have questions, contact the mod team via mod mail.
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No advice or personal situations
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No advice or personal situations
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No personal posts. This is a subreddit focused on receiving answers from the community about their own opinions and experiences, so no posts asking for advice or input on personal situations. Women don't exist only to fix your life.
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Posts asking for product, shopping or gift recommendations are not permitted.
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No medical advice or specific posts about symptoms. If you're having health issues, seek medical attention. If you think you might be pregnant, go pee on a stick.
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Ask Thought Provoking, Open-Ended Questions
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Ask Thought Provoking, Open-Ended Questions
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Questions must adequately state what is being asked
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No close-ended: Yes/no, either/or, or options list questions.
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No "would you rather" or "does anyone else" questions permitted at all.
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Leave your own response to the question as a comment rather than in the description or question
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If using uncommon terms, please define these in the description
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Any links included require detailed summaries so users do not need to click on the link to answer the question.
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Promote Inclusive Participation
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Promote Inclusive Participation
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Questions can't exclude minority groups from answering, such as women who are not attracted to men, neurotypical, Americans, cisgender, white women.
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No needless excluding based on age (“women in their 20s”, “college age”)
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Posts should use inclusive phrasing * Questions focusing on Minority Demographics are permitted.
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No derailing
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No derailing
Derailing includes but is not limited to:
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Changing the topic from OP's question
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Making someone else's response about yourself
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Asking unrelated follow-up questions
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Branching into unrelated topics
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"What-about"-ism
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Arguments, slap-fighting, or debating
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Judging or rating other responses
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Meta comments about other responses
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Responding to comments to tell us how your dick feels. No one cares.
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No Graceless Generalizations
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No Graceless Generalizations
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Speak only for yourself. Don't assume that all people in a gender, race, or ethnicity do/think something.
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Do not ask for mind reading, or for us to justify other people’s behaviors.
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No "what do you think of men who..."
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Don't ask for "male equivalent"/"female equivalent" as these would not exist for most things due to different cultural processes.
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No posts asking us to pass judgment on specific people (“what do you think of [celebrity]?”)
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No invalidation of others’ experiences
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No invalidation of others’ experiences
Invalidation includes but is not limited to:
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Stating or implying that a user's personal experiences or opinions are wrong or otherwise invalid
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Debating someone's personal experiences or opinions
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No disrespectful or hateful commentary
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No disrespectful or hateful commentary
Disrespectful or hateful commentary includes but is not limited to:
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Personal attacks
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Racism, homophobia & transphobia
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Misogyny & misandry
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Ableist language
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Dehumanizing language
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General assholery
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No gendered slurs
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No gendered slurs
Gendered slurs may only be used:
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In pertinent quotes
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To refer to the body parts
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As an irreplaceable part of specific common terms
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During relevant discussion of the term itself
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For more information, see the gendered slurs policy.
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No pot-stirring or agenda
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No pot-stirring or agenda
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This is not a debate sub/sub for soapboxing
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Posts/comments should be made in good faith
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No posts containing/promoting a personal agenda
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No discussion posts about specific subs/users
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No posts made in an attempt to create/stir up drama
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No links to threads in other subreddits
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No posts where a significant portion of expected responses would be removed as rule-breaking
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Cross-linking/screenshot of active r/askwomen threads to other subs/user pages results in a ban.
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Commonly asked question
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Commonly asked question
Answers to common or recently asked questions can be found in the FAQ or through the search bar. Common topics are determined by how often the topics come up, how likely the answers are to change, and whether it is already a FAQ topic. The timeframe for considering something common or recently asked takes all of that into account.
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No fap fodder or trauma tourism
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No fap fodder or trauma tourism
Indistinguishable from fap fodder or trauma tourism.
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No gifts, marketing, or research posting
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No gifts, marketing, or research posting
No gifts/product recommendation, shopping advice, or any other content indistinguishable from marketing, promotional material, spam, surveys, and/or research.
Moderator Discretion
While the rules of this sub are listed above, no set of rules can cover all of the content that people may post. Unfortunately, there will always be some things that our rules do not currently or perfectly cover. In those cases we reserve the right to take action and remove anything that we find insidious, inflammatory, or that does not fit within the spirit of the community even if the stated rules do not specifically disallow that content. In short, don't be an asshole
Message the Moderators
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Moderation is not discussed through private messages or chat. Use mod mail to contact the moderators.
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